29Nov

Assessing Risk

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I’ve been mulling over a few things in my head, most namely how a midwife can and should handle “risks” with her clients.

This topic always brings out the advocate in me.  I was well-trained to believe doctors handle care based on risk, and risk is based in fear.  Fear based practice is bad for mothers and babies because it leads to unnecessary intervention.  Yeah, I totally get that.  And yet somehow that alone is not enough to make me believe the best midwifery does nothing. Because doing nothing can be equally bad for mothers and babies.

Before you decide I’ve joined the dark side, remember that you have as well.  What do I mean?  Well for starters, do you talk about nutrition and exercise with the families you serve?  You probably do because you know that good nutrition and exercise does amazing things for preventing problems during pregnancy, birth and those first weeks postpartum. So what you have done is identified a risk and actually intervened. Your intervention was probably education and may have involved some diet history taking.  So you see, even as doulas or childbirth educators we already identify risks and intervene.

Why do we do this?  Because science shows us that families who do X are more likely to get Y.  You can identify X and Y for yourself.  What we need to understand is that IV antibiotics for Group B Strep positive women is theoretically no different from changing a woman’s diet.  Sure, the diet change doesn’t involve needles, but it does involve issues of culture, finance, nutrition and a woman’s feeling of self-determination.  It can be just as demoralizing to be told the food you choose to eat sucks and you need to change as it can to be told your body is not safe for your baby and you need to do something about it.

What makes me (and you and all midwives and want-to-bes) different from the doctors we complain about is that we have decided our interventions are better than theirs. We believe our ability to identify a problem is more keen than their’s.  We believe our interest in helping mothers is more noble than their’s. My dear friends, this is just egocentric.

There is a balance I have seen my favorite midwives do, a balance I hope to be able to practice myself one day.  It is the balance between identifying and responding to risks while not over-identifying and responding to risks. It is the balance between intervening and allowing the family the autonomy to make their own choices.  It is the balance between staying watchful, without having to be recognized for the watching you do.

I used to think all this took was a deep care for families and an acceptance of autonomy.  But as I study more I am realizing the part I have missed for so long is the ability to identify a real risk when I see it.  It is so easy to assume all problems are imaginary from where I sit.  I have tons of stories of women who have been told they had a problem when nothing bad happened to them.  I have no end to the “proof” that terrible things are made up by doctors who just want to control women.  But basing my decisions on what I have seen or been told is very short-sighted and is no different than the doctors who did episiotomy routinely because what they saw and were told was that it helped.

How do I recognize the difference between a woman whose blood pressure will rise during pregnancy without any adverse effects, and one whose very life will be threatened by it?  How do I know the difference between a woman who is just having a long labor and one who is in need of help?  The answer is that I have to educate myself to the best of my abilities.  I must understand the signs and symptoms of true problems.  I must be aware of the evidence for and against intervening in any number of ways. I must always have this information ready to pull out when I need it without being so overwhelmed that I am unable to serve healthy women.

My dear readers, this is the reason I feel midwifery education is so vital to the health of babies and mothers around the world. This is the reason I am working so hard now, and the reason I will continue to work hard.

17Nov

How to track the money

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I thought I better clarify something I said yesterday.  I am NOT bad with money, and I do a good job of making sure my business does not lose money for my family. But I do not do a good job of keeping the accounting software I have up to date.

I could, accounting software is really easy to navigate once you have it set up. It would take less than 10 minutes to make sure a transaction was entered correctly, and then I could get any information I wanted about what books are selling at the touch of a button. But really, that doesn’t matter so much to me.  I can get any of that information in a few ways, so the software really is just there to help me keep track for taxes.

But this system only works for me because I do a few other things. Really, by not keeping track, I put myself at risk of losing money or writing bad checks for my business. I would never recommend that to anyone, even though I do it myself.

Here are a few things that Will make tracking your money easier (and yes, I do actually do most of these which is why the computer entering is not such a big deal).

1) Open a separate account and do not mix money. If you use your business name you will need some form of identification for your business like a DBA or a LLC certificate. But even if you do not have a formal business name keep your business money in its own account. Then when you want to use the money for personal things, do a transfer or write yourself a check so that it is easy to track.  This will make it much easier to fill out the forms you need around tax time.

2) Have one place where you keep your receipts and bills so you always know where they are.  Do not mix them with your personal or household receipts, and don’t throw them away.  This is the information that tells you how much money your business is making or losing.

3) Don’t ignore the finances for months.  I know I do this, because it really does seem better to me to do five hours between semesters than to lose time when I could be studying.  But this is really just laziness on my part because as I said, it should only take a few minutes to enter it into the computer.  But I do a good job of keeping all my paperwork, so when I do the marathon financial update days they go fairly easily.

4) Don’t forget who paid you.  Write on the information sheet you keep for each client what day they paid you and how much. If you give them receipts and keep one for yourself that is even better.  You need this information to make sure all your clients have paid (especially if you wait a few months do enter your accounts into the software you use).

5) Don’t buy business stuff with personal money.  I know it is tempting, especially when you are cash poor at the business.  But force yourself to save for the items you need so your business doesn’t end up losing money.  It is very easy to keep buying supplies for your business without realizing how much you have spent when you pick up a few things here and there on your personal account.

So, there are five ways to help make the finances work better, from a woman who knows the advice is good but doesn’t apply it all to her own life at present.

16Nov

What do you give up?

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Over the last few days I have been crocheting a blanket my son and I started last winter. Just a small baby blanket made from yarn he picked out himself. It had been stuffed in a bag, set aside because school and moving and family life made me too busy to finish it. But I found it this week, and the blanket is progressing beautifully.

And then it started to dawn on me, I haven’t scrapbooked a page since I started nursing school.  No need really, I have barely taken my camera out to snap some shots anyway.  I haven’t read a book other the than the ones for school.  I haven’t really worked out and don’t get to do yoga every night.  I pick up my “how to belly dance” book from time to time but don’t even remember where the DVDs I got are. I rarely go to church with my family, I stopped journaling, only cook once or twice a week and dread the mess my business finances will be in when I get a break in January.

I have missed conferences and opportunities to spend time with friends, in fact some times it feels like I have no friends. My long walks to class have been replaced with faster rides on the shuttle. As the semester wears on even blogging feels less and less like a necessity.

No, this isn’t pessimistic.  My life will not always be like this.  Right now I have decided to go to school.  But to make time for school I had to give up other things in my life.  It cannot be done any other way – the time and energy must come from somewhere. But here is the secret – I get to pick what I give up, and so do you. When the time is right to further your training, you will have to make choices.

I haven’t given up spending time with my family, even family dinner.  I cannot make it every night, and I only cook a big meal a few nights a week.  But we have adjusted to left-overs and sandwiches just fine.

I haven’t given up finding new music to listen to.  I make trips to the library with the kids specifically to find CDs by artists I have never heard.

I haven’t given up sharing what I learn with my readers.  But instead of worrying about updating the complicated navigational systems of the main website, I simply blog.

I haven’t given up working with expectant families.  But I am now the student instead of the doula.

I haven’t given up the goal, and I know what I am working for.  The long hours of studying will be worth it.  These few months or years at school are temporary, and it will never be so easy for me to learn as much so fast as it is now. So I want to be sure to take advantage of every minute I can make available to become an amazing midwife.

But that doesn’t include the 2 hours next week when I will take my daughter to hear the symphony perform, because I’m not willing to give that up.

15Nov

Fun Diversions into Babyland

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My sister is having a baby soon.  We both agree she needs a baby sling, but which one? It needed to fit her personality, be easy enough to use and be acceptable for her husband to use as well.  And really, there are so many choices.  Were do we begin?

We began by deciding any mass produced or marketed sling wouldn’t do.  Her sling needed to display her personality.  So we jumped on the phone (we live 1000 miles apart) and searched online for the perfect fabric. It is soft, colorful and has images of the members of the Beatles throughout. You see, my sister adores the Beatles. I ordered the fabric and started to make some plans.

My first thought was to hire a local sling seamstress to turn the fabric into a wonderful gift of sling and matching bag.  But I don’t really have the time right now to dig further than the hour I have already spent looking for someone. School has to come first.  So the fabric is on the shelf waiting and my sister is going to have this baby soon.

I will be visiting her over the Holidays, and though I had hoped to be bringing her a sling I will be bringing her fabric instead.  Good news is we both sew.  We can pick the “sew-your-own-sling” directions we like the best from a Google search and make her a sling in a few short hours of too much fun and laughing.

Which got me to thinking.  If you are looking for a way to market your services or expand the work you do, why not add special order slings?  You could even do it as a sewing class if you are skillful enough.  What a fun way to help a group of expectant moms meet each other and prepare for their new baby.  I’m sure you would get lots of questions about your other services, which could lead to more work. But even if it doesn’t, it is still may be a great addition to your birth business.

12Nov

Special Nutritional Needs in Pregnancy

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Most dietary guidelines are very generic, but the Higgins Intervention Method has specific plans for meeting the special requirements of mothers with different nutritional needs. I like the ability this method gives to really personalize the recommendations and the ability it gives me to quantify the nutritional needs rather than just saying “eat more”.

If you are working with a pregnant teen, she needs more than the standard prenatal calories and protein.  This is because her body is still growing, and she needs to eat enough to support both her growth and the growth of her baby. So you would need to add the 300 additional calories a day to the higher values of protein and calories of a teen.

Mothers who are underweight will need to eat an increased protein and calorie diet. However, the Higgins Intervention Method recommends increasing it only for the number of weeks needed to add the weight to make up for the deficit. So if she were 10 pounds underweight, adjust her diet so she gains an extra 1 pound per week for 10 weeks (or 1/2 a pound a week for 20 weeks).

Mothers who are undernourished are determined by the protein intake on the Higgins Intervention Method. To calculate the protein deficit, you would compare her protein intake to the normal pregnancy requirements.  To correct for this add as additional daily protein the amount she is deficient and increase her caloric intake 10 calories for each gram of protein she is deficient.

Vegetarian women do not need any different guidelines.  They will simply choose animal sources for their food.  The biggest struggle, which may not be a struggle at all, will be getting enough protein since vegetable sources of protein are not as protein dense as animal sources. If she has trouble consuming enough calories to get adequate protein she can consider supplementing with any number of a variety of protein supplements.

Lactating women need even more calories than pregnant women.  The 300 calorie increase becomes 500 calories.  All the principles of good nutrition still apply.

11Nov

Vitamin and Mineral Supplementation in Pregnancy

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Vitamins and minerals are referred to as micronutrients.  They do not contribute calories to the diet, but do play an important role in cellular function.  Remember cells?  They make up your entire body and are responsible for your body being able to stay healthy.

I personally have never been a fan of vitamin and mineral supplementation.  I am a purist in that I believe the diet should be adjusted before a pill is taken. But I do understand there are limits to what a woman is able to eat from time to time.

Allow me to use myself as an example. Over the last two months since school began I have found myself becoming more and more tired and unable to focus.  My stress level was increasing and my schedule was really out of control some weeks.  Balancing classes, studying, clincials and family left little time for cooking and forget about shopping.  I was relying on what I could pack in the morning, selected from what my husband chose to purchase.

Two weeks ago I made two changes.  First, I decided to keep a water bottle on the counter when I am home to remind me to keep drinking water.  Secondly, I started taking a multivitamin every day.  It took a couple days, but I started feeling better. I was sold.  Because of the temporary and unique demands on my body and time right now, I will continue to use a multivitamin supplement.

Honestly, I don’t think that conflicts with my basic theory about supplementation.  Supplements are available for the unique situations that prevent a person from achieving optimum nutrition from their diet. So how does this relate to pregnant women?

Think first trimester and the most common pregnancy complaint – nausea and vomiting.  This can prevent a woman from maintaining her normally healthy diet.  Some women experience food aversions throughout their entire pregnancy.  Again, these can make it difficult to maintain a normal healthy diet.  Supplementation can help by providing a little insurance (as long as she can keep the vitamins down).

Another common pregnancy complaint is fatigue.  In many women this is linked to anemia caused by low iron stores.  Pregnancy increases your bodies need for iron, and if your iron stores where not optimum to begin with (as is common for about 40% of American women), you can experience a mild to moderate anemia.  This can be especially true if this pregnancy happened quickly after a previous pregnancy.  Iron supplementation can help to manage this problem.

Though fiber is not a nutrient, it is necessary in the diet.  Most Americans do not consume the recommended 25-30 grams of fiber a day. This can lead to problems with constipation.  Since pregnant women are more likely to experience constipation, the inability to consume adequate fiber can compound a common pregnancy problem.  Women taking iron pills may increase their risk of constipation.  Fiber supplementation can be a temporary help during this time of increased need.

Folic Acid supplementation is recommended for all women of childbearing age.  Why?  Because deficiency of this nutrient can actually cause harm to your baby in the form of neural tube defects.  Unfortunately, by the time most women discover they are pregnant the neural tube is already formed. But folic acid (or folate) is also important for preventing a different form of anemia.  So for a woman who is having difficulty consuming a healthy diet, folate supplementation can be helpful.

The key here is to understand what you are supplementing and why.  More is not always better. For example, too much Vitamin A can lead to problems for your baby. The goal of supplementation is to temporarily maintain the optimum nutrition for a woman during a time of nutritional stress.

10Nov

Helping women change their diet

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If you have done any work with pregnant women, you have probably seen that how a person eats is a VERY personal matter.  Families who seek advice and information on nearly every other topic can seem to drift off into space if you start talking nutrition. So, how do you help a woman get optimum nutrition? That will depend on the woman.  But here are some questions to think about as you formulate a plan.

1. Is the woman ready to learn? Is she interested in what you have to say and trust the information you give her?  Is she open to making dietary changes and learning about ways to improve her nutrition? If not, you are likely wasting your time.

2. Do you know what problems she has with her diet? You can make assumptions, but unless you know what challenges she faces you cannot help her overcome those challenges.  Does she have access to food, meaning she can get to a place to buy food and money to purchase that food?  Does she have a way to store and prepare food, meaning she can actually refrigerate foods that require it and has the tools needed to cook?  Does she know how to cook food, meaning she understands how to use recipes and feels comfortable preparing her own meals? Does have time to eat, meaning she is able to purchase or prepare meals when she needs them rather than skipping meals? Is her biggest challenge not knowing how to plan a menu following recommended nutrition guideline?

3. Do you know what she normally eats? Recommended diet changes are more likely to be accepted if they follow her normal eating plan.  If you are working with a vegetarian who needs more protein, help her identify vegetable sources she likes.  If you are working with a woman who is lactose intolerant who needs more calcium, help her identify lactose free dairy alternatives and high calcium plant foods. How does she normally prepare her foods and what types of foods does she like?

4. Are you telling her what to do, or helping her learn? Giving her a list of foods to eat may be interesting, but probably doesn’t help the woman learn to solve her own nutrition problems.  Instead, have her do a 24 hour diet recall and work through her normal eating with her as she discovers where her diet may benefit from change.

5. What can she teach you? If you are truly partnering with a woman to help her improve her health, you should be willing and able to learn from her as well.  As you discuss nutrition, ask her questions and show that you are interested in how she as handled her own nutrition challenges.  She may be able to share a great recipe, introduce you to a great grocery or farmer’s market or show a food idea other families can benefit from.

Now that you have matched her needs to your teaching, here are a few other pointers you might find useful.

Reinforce what she does correctly, Celebrate what she is already doing right and build from there.

Set realistic goals, Think in small steps that she can achieve in a week. This lets her build gradually and be successful to encourage her to continue making changes.

Commitment to change, Make sure that she is on board with the plan.  This is most easily done if she had a major part in preparing the plan.

09Nov

Caloric Intake During Pregnancy

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Have you seen the latest weight gain recommendations from the IOM?  They are the same except an increase for the highest BMI levels. Low BMI gain 28-40 pounds; Normal BMI gain 25-35 pounds; High BMI gain 15-25 pounds and Obese BMI gain 11-20 pounds.

I personally am a fan of increasing the weight gain for obese individuals.  I’ve always been frustrated that to ensure the recommended weight gain it meant an obese woman actually losing weight during pregnancy (when you adjust for the growth of the baby and the placenta). I prefer to focus on what a woman eats, and if her nutrition is appropriate than not worry so much about the number on the scale.

But my mind may have been changed recently. As we discussed prenatal nutrition, one of my instructors pointed out that it can be very difficult for an obese woman to gain “enough” weight during pregnancy (with enough meaning the recommended weight gain) because to maintain her body weight takes a significant amount of calories.  During early pregnancy, with nausea and food aversions many women (obese included) have difficultly consuming their customary amounts of food.  Without the high caloric intakes to maintain the weight, obese women often lose significant numbers of pounds early in pregnancy.  I hadn’t really thought about that before, but it does make sense. Maybe I can be a little less frustrated with the weight gain recommendations now.

So how do you know if a woman is eating an adequate number of calories during pregnancy?  You do the math.  The equation is to take her optimum prepregnancy weight in kg (about the middle number of the normal BMI for her height or use the old Metropolitan Life Charts), and multiply that number by 35 calories.  This is her pre-pregnancy calorie need.  Add 300 to the number and that is about the number of calories she needs everyday for a healthy pregnancy.

There is another method, called the Higgins Intervention Method, that Varney’s Midwifery introduced to me. Created by the Montreal Diet Dispensary, it uses charts of the desired weights by height (those Metropolitan Life Charts again) and charts of calorie requirement for weight and activity level (From the Canadian Dietary Standards for Female Adults).  This method seems to add 500 calories and 25 grams of protein per day after 20 weeks pregnancy without any increase prior to 20 weeks. For a multiple pregnancy you add the 500 calories and 25 grams protein for each fetus.

What is interesting about the Higgins Intervention Method, is that it also changes based on other characteristics of the mother.  If the mother was more than 5% under weight, she adds an additional 500 calories and 20 grams per day.  If she has nutritional stress such as close pregnancy spacing or pernicious vomiting, she adds 200 calories and 20 grams of protein for each stress inducing condition.

08Nov

Nutritional Needs During Pregnancy

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When it comes to pregnancy nutrition, there seem to be two types of people. Those who feel it is of the utmost importance, and those who feel it doesn’t matter. Want to know which side of that fence I am on?  Here is some information straight out of Varney’s Midwifery  to help you figure that out.

Low birth weight babies, whether they are small for gestational age or premature, have increased rates of perinatal mortality, mental retardation, cerebral palsy, learning disabilities, visual and hearing defects, neurological defects and poor infant growth and development. Factors that influence birth weight are: maternal disease, smoking, gestational age and maternal malnutrition. Maternal malnutrition is related to two factors, the prepregnancy weigh and the weight gain during pregnancy. That’s all.

That doesn’t quite tell the whole story.  We do know that two things seem to cause the baby’s growth to not be optimum; placental problems and poor nutrition.  But these two do not produce the same results.  When growth is restricted by the placenta, brain growth is protected even though the rest of the growth is hindered. When growth is restricted by inadequate nutrition, the brain is not spared.

Varney’s tells a chilling tale, does it not? It goes on to break down birth weights to explain what birth weights have the optimum health, and its higher than you think.  3500 – 4000 grams, which is between 7 lb 12 oz and 8 lb 14 oz. Many women might even consider these babies “big” wishing instead for a more petite version.

So we can accept nutrition is important, but that is about all I see most people will agree on. Why? Because  the food you eat is a very personal, culturally specific and emotionally charged issue. Diet is a difficult subject to bring up because families have many reasons for eating the way they do.  Finances, access to foods, experience with foods, culture and time limitations are all mixed in. So when they come to you as the midwife, and you tell them to eat well for pregnancy, what have you really told them?

It goes the opposite way too.  I have meet birth professionals who spend majority of their time focusing on the importance of  organic or whole foods or vegetarian or high protein diets. None of these things are necessarily wrong, but if you are working with a family that does not yet eat two servings of vegetables a day, you are missing an opportunity to help them make the first step.

So how do nutritional needs change during pregnancy?  They actually change very little from the standard nutritional needs.  Most nutrients needs are the same, or nearly the same for pregnant and non-pregnant women.  The big differences are that protein needs rise to 71 g per day on average and total calorie need increases by 300. In addition, pregnancy does increase your iron needs.

The recommended breakdown of food groups to meet these needs is as follows:   Fruits – 1.5 cups;  Vegetables – 2.5 cups;  Grains – 6 oz eq;   Meat and Beans – 5 oz eq;   Milk 3 cups.

And for those of you who read that list and feel frustrated that women will not get optimum benefits from eating like that unless they choose organic or whole food or whatever you personal preferences are in food, I share with you the wisdom of one of my favorite midwives: The research shows these benefits from the plain old stuff they sell in the grocery store.  If you can get her to eat it, she’s get these benefits.

05Nov

Last Thoughts about Internet Marketing

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This is another recycled post from the accidentally deleted blog.  I wanted to re-share it because I think it is very important to really think about the messages you send and why you are sending them.

I have quite a few birth-interested Facebook friends, so I see quite a few articles on my newsfeed.  Often I see the same article several times throughout the day as the article makes the rounds. Usually these are articles that are encouraging, uplifting or are seen as more support for the poster’s positions.  More often, articles are posted out of anger, frustration or the desire to punish the author or main subject of the article.

Posting as punishment?  True.  I see it in the replies to the articles as well.  Reader after reader tries to find the most eloquent way to say the author is a nincompoop, or the other readers are. It is fascinating to me that these posts almost never simply state they disagree and list factual reasons why.  Instead the discussion is a back and forth of the author is perfect – the author needs to grow a brain.

I am reminded of a comment made by the speaker at a recent law school graduation, “Most people claim they want justice, but what they really want is vengeance.”

But here is the secret…I think the authors of the articles and the companies that publish their articles like it that way. The page views do not record whether you were there to see the disaster or because you wanted the encouragement.  I doubt anyone “official” ever looks at all the comments, they simply check to see how many have been made.  An article that gets an emotional response – one that divides the readers and gets them shouting back and forth – increases profits.

Profits?  Well, yes.  What do you think a website exists for anyway?  Do you really believe the New York Times, Time Magazine, Cosmo or even Facebook do what they do to provide education for the masses?  These are businesses, and even not for profit businesses need to support themselves.  If there is no income, the business ceases to exist.  In the world of web articles, that money comes from advertisers.  Advertisers want more people to see their ads.  Websites must provide content that is stimulating to ensure readers share.  Sharing is an inexpensive way to get more people to the website.

No, I am not anti-corporation.  I don’t mind that these businesses provide information as a way to make money.  In fact, I’m rather fond of some of them.  But I do want to encourage you to think twice before you hit that share button for an article you don’t want to support.  Your share will be shared, and the impact will multiply and the article will get lots of attention.  Attention is what websites need – which means that author or that type of story will likely be repeated. In some systems your link to the article is counted as a “vote” for the importance of the article.

Just a reminder to think twice before you “vote” for an article.

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